There is yet another way to fall in love with your partner’s yogurt chucker and that is to understand how powerful his erection makes you.  After all, his hardon is a response to your presence.  YOU are eliciting this response from him.

I don’t know of a more convincing display of power than to completely own a man’s attention, to change his physical, emotional and psychological state. You got him hard? You have him right where you want him.  Well done!

So how do you dominate him if it’s you pleasuring him?

Because YOU decide how he’s going to feel by where you place your hands.

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YOU decide how he is going to react when you put your warm moist mouth on his member.  Again, he is reacting to what you’re doing and that means you’re in control. Revel in it!

A Hard Dick Is Your Chance To Enjoy The Pleasures Of Submission

I don’t mean submission in a degrading or misogynistic sort of way, but in the fullness of pleasure sought.  You play with dominance and submission all the time, you’ve probably just never categorized it in those terms.

If you like to be pinned under your guy, you’ve experienced the thrill of submitting to power. If you like holding him down, you’ve experienced the thrill of wielding it. It’s not possible to have sex without some kind of power exchange. At one moment or another you are wielding or yielding.

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In this case, we’re talking about yielding to the power of a hard cock.  What does that mean?  It means losing yourself in the adoration, the ritual of kissing, touching, and suckling on the force, might and power of his hardness.  It means giving in to the exhilarating, liberating feeling of being “owned” by his masculinity. Of showing reverence to Strength.

Submission means that by bending your will to the authority vested in his cock you can experience a form of therapeutic escape, of safety, protection.  Of glorifying strength and disappearing into the unavoidable nothingness that comes from relinquishing all power. In this scenario, your mouth is a spiritual offering, a way to exalt his command of you.

Damn.  Anybody else feel like a biscuit that just got buttered?  Whew!

A Hard Dick Helps You Experience Submission & Domination Simultaneously

One of the unique things about giving the best blowjobs is that different sexual positions can give you radically different experiences of power.  For instance, there’s a big difference between giving a blowjob to a man that is laying on his back vs. kneeling in front of him while he stands vs. him sitting relaxed in a chair.

The power dynamics just feel different. Talk to most women about how to give good blowjobs and you’ll find that they revel in a hard cock’s ability to make them either feel powerful or powerless at almost a moment’s notice. As one woman in a discussion forum put it, “the psychological sense of simultaneous submission and power/control is very heady.”

A Hard Dick Is The Chance To Take Pleasure From Pleasure Delivered

Pleasure is a coin with two sides. “Heads” means you’re giving pleasure and “Tails” means you’re getting it. Both states of pleasure exist at the same time. All you have to do is flip the coin to experience one or the other.

The pleasure of pleasuring cannot be underestimated or overstated. You know you’ve achieved a new consciousness about cock when you think, “I would pay HIM for the chance to blow him”  Now, that’s amore!

In the next post, how having an oral fixation will bring you closer. we’ll  In the meantime, learn about what predicts men’s sexual desire.

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