Is This You?
Things have gone stale in the bedroom. In fact, your relationship desperately needs a strong dosage of excitement and stimulation.
Introducing fantasies, beginner bondage, or female submission or dominance would be the perfect way to reintroduce those exciting days. But you’re stumped about what fantasies to play out or how to go about having alternative types of sex. You’ve spent time thinking of different fantasies in your head, but none of them seem too appealing. You have no role playing ideas.
On top of that, you’re not sure if your partner will enjoy the same fantasies. How can you discover fantasies that turn you on? How can you make sure that your partner has as much fun as you do when you’re role playing?
Bondage For Beginners?
Disclosing a fantasy, no matter how dark or trivial, is kind of like a trapeze act – you jump off the ledge in complete vulnerability and hope that your partner’s hands are there waiting for you when you come out of the flip.
Making your partner comfortable with your fantasy seems like a long shot, so you’ve just avoided the whole fantasy sex game altogether and continue to do it the way you’ve ALWAYS done it. How can you tell your partner about your fantasies (whether it’s bdsm for beginners or more) without making him turn and run the other way?
How can you create a comfortable environment to discuss each other’s fantasies so that you two can discover what the other likes?
Do ‘Civilized’ Couples Have A Bondage Fantasy?
Many couples think women’s fantasy sex is stuff that happens only in porn. A respectable individual such as yourself would be degrading their relationship if they started having submission sex, right? Wrong.
Fantasy sex, from beginning bondage to other ways of expressing submission and dominance are signs of a HEALTHY relationship. Some women are satisfied with their current sex life and don’t feel the need to play out fantasies and role play. But what if your partner is looking for something more exciting and adventurous to spice up the relationship?
How can you successfully transition from having ‘plain ol’ sex’ to enjoying thrilling fantasies, from kinky sex for beginners to more sophisticated BDSM?
Will Domination Or Submission Sex Spice Up Your Marriage?
You may have already tried role plays like a women dominating men scene, but you’re still not sure whether you want to take charge and be aggressive or lay back and enjoy the ride. How can you figure out whether you’re a dominator or someone who likes to be submissive?
How Do You Stay Safe With Female Submission (Or Domination)?
You’ve heard the stories. Some sexual encounters have left people in the ER. You want to role play, act out your fantasies and play with submission relationships (or dominant ones), but what if things go from playful to painful as it can when you don’t know bondage techniques?
Learning each other’s thresholds is an essential part of enjoying submission/domination sex. If you two aren’t able to read each other properly or haven’t discussed safe words before, what started off in the bedroom really may end up in a hospital room.
How do you learn each other’s pain limits and thresholds?