What Feminism and Pheromones Have To Do With A Blowjob

blowjob pheromonesCan blowjobs provide sexual stimulation for women?  Yes. Blowjobs have an undeniably big mental component and they can bring women to climax or to the very brink of it.

Can You Be A Feminist And Worship Cock?

What a ridiculous question! It’s like asking if you can be a feminist and stay at home to take care of the kids. The whole point of feminism (in my humble opinion) is the ability to freely exercise choice without being encumbered by gender expectations.

There is a big difference between saying, “I must worship cock because that’s my role as a woman” and saying, “I choose to worship cock because it gives me great pleasure.”

To me, feminism means owning your sexual desires and expressing them however you see fit.

Raise Your Hand If You DON’T Have An Oral Fixation.

Now, slap yourself with it for being a liar!  Everybody has an oral fixation to some degree.  We’ve been gleefully putting things in our mouth since we were babies. Why?  Because it’s pleasurable.

Sure, as we grow older, the oral fixation wanes but it never truly goes away.  Almost everybody enjoys the sensation of having something in their mouths. In some, that enjoyment becomes a mild to wild fixation.

Whether nail biting or excessive eating, oral fixations are thought to develop during childhood and have a high prevalence among adults.

Oral fixations among women can range from excessive application of lip gloss to the pica disorder, where a woman chews on non-edible materials such as chalk, matches or mattress foam. An over indulgence in any oral fixation could become problematic, but hey, cock tastes a whole lot better than chalk!

So if you’ve got the slightest proclivity toward an oral fixation (and who doesn’t), think of your partner’s penis as the thumb you used to suck on when you were a kid (only a lot bigger!).  It’s comforting.  It tastes good.  And it feels good.

Just ask him.

Another Great Reason To Give Head: It Brings You Closer

While there are indeed physical pleasures to extract from learning how to give the best head, the true treasures are in the psychological highs they unlock. Here, the forbidden nature of oral sex can be re-appropriated for erotic effect, as nothing fuels hedonism like a little naughtiness.

Both you and your man are at your most vulnerable at the onset of oral sex. You may feel emotionally at risk as you prepare to insert his penis into the mouth that you eat, pray and kiss your cat with.

Meanwhile, your man is sticking his most sensitive body part into a dark unknown that contains sharp, calcified teeth. This shared vulnerability increases the potential for shared intimacy by easing each other into comfort, rather than withdrawing into your separate insecurities.

 

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Giving your guy the best blowjob is one of the best ways to tap into your sexual id and reach heights of arousal that you can’t with penetration alone.

Sniffing his balls or deeply inhaling his pubic hairs, for example, gives you a big hit of male pheromones, the chemicals that send sexual telegrams to willing recipients. Nothing uncaps your primal desires more than the aroma of rising manhood.

In the next post, we’ll discuss what to do if you really, really don’t like giving blowjobs. In the meantime, learn about what you smell in tears.

If you missed the last post, check it out here.

By | 2017-01-08T00:29:42+00:00 February 5th, 2017|Sex Advice For Women|0 Comments

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